dear tivra, thank you for the inspiring and motivational message which surely has resonated with my experience in the past. Suppose there are people who have been damaged by multiple sexual partners/addicted to pornography and sexual thoughts/actions, what could be the immediate long term and short term remedies available for them to get back io track (if they really want to, but they can’t, due to their affliction), in terms of sadhana and spirituality of course?

Namaste Tīvra ji, thank you very much. I have learned something valuable today and will remember it. I feel fortunate to have had this conversation with you for the first time. I have read your previous comments but never had the courage to ask questions directly. Your answers always left an impression of awe and amazement, with a bit of caution, as my mind could not fully comprehend all the things you write about various ideologies. Perhaps this is due to exposure to a lot of information without having a depth in practice. I have always wanted to ask you this, and please feel free not to answer my question: How has your life been? How were you able to amass so much knowledge; is it from the guru parampara you belong to? The things you write, I do not find them anywhere to cross-check, but somehow I was always convinced by your comments. My understanding is that your communication with the divine is very powerful, but how does one reach that state? You also not only have knowledge about Lalitambika but also about other forms of devis, which do not have any mention elsewhere. I have always seen you in high regards and thought will I ever able to reach that level of consciousness? What are the signs one should see in their practice that would tell them they are progressing in their sadhana? Thanks a lot, Bam.

Ban. Having sexual relations with different people is very harmful. If you are interested in being the head of the family, seek true love. While you don't have a wife, fill that space with your dreams. Study hard, work diligently, go to the gym, do yoga, eat healthily. Channel your energy into your dreams and personal development, while strengthening your connection with the God or goddess you worship. In the beginning, there isn't much to do besides having great willpower. Channeling your energy into your dreams is a great trick that will give you material success in a short period of time and give you more comfort. I have seen people enter this "mode" after a romantic disappointment: sexual energy becomes so channeled into dreams that they don't have sexual thoughts for months/years and achieve great professional and material success quickly. If you have material success, you will have more comfort to think about God and will be able to take better care of your family.

Namaste Tīvra. Can you please elaborate on which letter corresponds to which Nityā? Given that all the Nityās are present in the Pañcadaśākṣarī anyway, would it still be advisable to worship each Nityā on her corresponding tithi? And if so, in which order for śukla pakṣa and which for kriṣṇa pakṣa? Thank you.

Namaste Tīvra ji, thank you very much for your valuable response. I believe I may not be able to fully comprehend everything you have shared. However, I still have a few questions. You mentioned that one should engage in intercourse once every two weeks. What should one do if they do not have a partner for various reasons? Should one then consider self-stimulation? I apologize if this question seems a bit inappropriate, but the latter option sometimes leads to feelings of guilt, which can hinder daily practice. As a beginner in sadhana, neither my mind nor my body is entirely pure. I strive to devote my mind to my Ishta, but when interacting with society, my mind occasionally entertains lustful thoughts. My other question is whether physical relationships with others also involve an exchange of karma. If I am with a partner whom I cannot marry, having intercourse every two weeks would be challenging, and I am unsure how many partners I might have before having a lifelong partner. Therefore, as a beginner who is still far from controlling or transmuting sexual energy, what course of action would you recommend? Thank you very much, Bam

ka e ī la hrīm̐ । ha sa ka ha la hrīm̐ । sa ka la hrīm̐ ॥ 15 Letters, 15 Phases of the Moon. If a man does not learn to transmute his sexual energy (go from the Full Moon to the New Moon) on the 15th day, the semen begins to deteriorate. This 15-letter Mantra called Kādi Vidyā goes from the Full Moon to the New Moon. In the New Moon there is no knowledge, because for knowledge to exist there must be some level of separation. Kādi Vidyā is a movement that only descends, never ascends. This is because it signifies infinite grace. It is you who ascends to understand that you never descended. You give everything freely and never diminish in size. Do you know the best way to transmute sexual energy? Unconditional love for the Supreme within each thing of creation. This Kādi Vidyā will make you want to "undress" whatever your heart is in. If your heart is in God, you will reach Him quickly. If your heart is in materialism, you will become a dangerous maniac with this Mantra.

All countries should have a large group of qualified teachers to teach all men about this Mudra. It should be mandatory. Sexual crimes would drop to zero, and that would be the least of the benefits. Women are also capable of learning the same Mudra (with some modifications to the equipment) and piercing the man's Chakras with their strength. This mutual piercing would generate a generation of enlightened beings, which would be very bad for the forces of evil. This Mudra alone would have the power to end practically all the evil in this society.

Vajroli mudra or other locks should be done with care and guidance chances of not doing it correctly is very high in these types of postures or locks. This involves pulling of fluids through genital organs which I will not suggest for general practitioner's. Do it only with the help of a yoga master.

Namaste Bam. It is not healthy to remain without sex if you do not know how to transmute sexual energy. The semen of a man who does not know how to transmute his sexual energy begins to deteriorate if he does not have sexual relations once every two weeks. If the semen deteriorates, the rest of the body deteriorates; and if the man wastes too much sexual energy, the same deterioration occurs. Semen incorporates all the Dhatus of the human body and is something complicated to deal with. Of the Mantras and practices that require control of sexual energy, those of Kādi Vidyā are the most dangerous of all. You can transmute sexual energy through the intensity of daily contemplation on the attributes of the deity you worship or through Haṭha or Kriyā Yoga. What cannot happen is that you do not transmute sexual energy. If you know how to transmute this energy, you can go without sex for as long as you want, but a man who doesn't know how to transmute sexual energy should only have sex once every two weeks to maintain semen quality; otherwise, the entire body deteriorates. There is a Mudra that every man and woman should be taught: Vajrolī Mudra. Perfecting this Mudra requires specific equipment and a specialist's guidance. With the perfection of this Mudra, you can go without sex for as long as you want, and if you want to satisfy your wife, a single sexual encounter will be able to satisfy her for months, due to the mastery of sexual energy that arises from perfecting Vajrolī Mudra. It's true that the more sex someone has, the poorer their sexual energy is. Because a man who has mastered this energy only needs a single encounter to satisfy a woman for months. His energy pierces her upper chakras, generating a higher degree of satisfaction that lasts for months. But a man without mastery of this energy cannot do that. He dates many women, and the most his energy reaches her is the Svadhisthana Chakra. But these things aren't taught to men from a young age. With this Mudra, he can alternate between celibacy and the life of a householder whenever he wants without difficulty.

So does it become like 1. Bindu, 2. Upright Trikona, 3. 8 petalled lotus, 4. 10 petalled lotus, 5. Another 10 petalled lotus, 6. 14 petalled lotus, 7. 12 petalled lotus, 8. 16 petalled lotus and 9. 2 Bhupurs?